#metoo

I'm listening to her another podcast while people are talking about abuse and rape and in this dark place where this things happen so much, I am hearing the small and I hope significant changes. 

So do I report my experience? The big one, the one that I think shaped me and took therapy over 25 years later to be able to say without a deep sense of shame. 

He was a young man at the time, just 5 years older than me. And if he did go on to be a rapist - continue to be one - could I have stopped him. I don't even know how to find out where he is. 

And then, what about all the small ones. 

It's all shit